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Bills/expenses are important in the following order:
- Rent / roof over your head
- Electricity and gas
- Food (fresh food, frozen food, canned food. This is also the order of the speed this food goes bad with fresh going off first and canned lasting the longest. This can also be the order of nutritiousness with fresh being the best. The reverse on cost with fresh usually being the most expensive).
Saving money is more important than moving out unless employment prospects are nil back home or it’s psychologically taxing to be around family. That saved money, whether using retirement options via employers who may match your contribution or through your own individual bank or brokerage, provides freedom to move out with more choices, or travel, or quit a sucky job, or deal with an emergency etc.
Their embrace is beautiful. The way he’s on his tippy toes, there’s such abandon and joy and relief/gratitude in his posture. It’s as though he’s being lifted out of himself emotionally in this moment as she comes to life and pulls him up to her.