Refugee from another, less-friendly instance. Please forgive the youth of my account— I’ve actually been around here for a while. Still, glad to be here!

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  • For instance, I dance a lot. I have even started ballet dancing. And in the past I had an eating disorder. Now I know this may sound a kind of bigoted or stereotypical. But I don’t mean it that way, this is purely based on statistics.

    these things do make not a person LGBTQ+

    However I feel in no way that I am in the wrong body. I like being a man, I like the idea of masculinity

    this seems to be pretty much the qualifying criterion, and, to this, I’d ay no, you’re (very probably) not trans.

    But it makes me “worried” if I do end up tran

    people are born LGBTQ+ and typically know it all their lives. From you descriptions, it seems like you might just be Bi. Enjoying “non-masculine” activities doesn’t really mean anything in and of itself. Being LGBTQ+ isn’t something one “ends up as”-- it’s something we always have been.

    when I already have a wife and children

    and so what? sure, there may be some adjustments for them to make, but, unless they’re transphobes, it shouldn’t be a problem.