yol@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•People who can don't get mad and just go with the flow, how do you do it?
8·
6 months agoI allow myself to feel the rage. Every bit of it, for a count of three, then I have to stop. Because now it’s time to take action. And proper action requires a calm response. I used to try to breathe and relax but that usually just left me fuming for an hour. Instead I just get unfathomably angry for 2 seconds then move on. I don’t know how healthy it is but it works for me. Sort of the emotional equivalent of yelling out an expletive.
Zubat: Not for long friend.