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    5 months ago

    I’m male. My last partner and I split up about 6 years ago, which in retrospect I regret (but I didn’t know then what I know now). I think I’m about ready to try dating again. I share this to suggest that I can relate to missing a former partner for an extended period of time.

    I think your main issue is that you have not grieved that your relationship with A is over, so you keep compulsively trying in vain to resurrect it somehow. The price you pay in not accepting reality is not being able to start your healing process in earnest. It won’t be easy, but you need to forgive your younger self, you need to accept that you don’t have a life and kids with A - you have the life that you have, and you’ll probably need to accept not letting this go for 30 years.

    I think the thing that concerns me most in your post is that you seem to be at risk of doing the same thing to your current partner and kids - losing them because you’re focused on something else - that you did with A 30 years ago.

    If I had to guess what drove you to emailing A now it’s probably marital and/or life discontent.

    You have lots of life left to live, but you won’t start to live until you accept the life that you have. You need self-compassion my friend. You need to focus on your healing. You need to accept difficult truths. Wounds don’t heal when we pick at them often.

    I hope some of that made sense. Please forgive my overly directive language in the interest of brevity. Take care <3